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Srish's avatar

Love how I meet such essays when I find myself demotivated :)

ru's avatar

I’ve never really thought about it like this. Complaining a lot does really reflect on what we’re actively doing to change. I love what you wrote :)

Cynthia Doyle's avatar

Thank you needed to hear this this morning

Jay Siegelaub's avatar

I like Eckhart Tolle on Complaining:

To complain is always non-acceptance of what is. It invariably carries an unconscious negative charge.

When you complain you make yourself into a victim.

If you find your here and now intolerable and it makes you unhappy, you have 3 options:

— remove yourself from the situation,

— change it,

or

— accept it.